Prioritize yourself!

Every pain teaches us a lesson that we remember for the rest of our lives. But don’t hurt yourself by running after others. Prioritize yourself. We can never force anyone to be our fan or friend. Everyone has their own thoughts, their own preferences. Let people go, let them see the world. If they don’t see the value of having you don’t try to convince them. Forget expectations, groom yourself but not for others. Take care of yourself without being selfish.

When you feel inferior, depressed, hopeless and unloved. Write down all the things on a page that make you good, bad, happy or sad then understand it and let it leave. Make yourself a cup of tea and enjoy your company. Trust me, you won’t find a better company than yourself. In order to fill other people’s cups, we must make sure our cups are filled. Even though it can feel like there is not enough time for self-care, there is. Sometimes, we just have to learn how to fit it in and prioritize it.

Forgive yourself, protect yourself, listen to yourself and understand yourself. Feed your mind with inspiring books and with positive motivation. Decide and make boundaries for yourself and don’t allow anyone to violate them. When you put yourself first you feel happier and more content. Your health is highly crucial and should be first on your list of priorities. It determines your prosperity, comfort and overall attitude. Be kind to yourself and don’t let anyone to ruin your mood. Discover your true self and Be proud of who you are.

There are many of us who feel that no one listens to us, no one sees our happiness or no one values us. Don’t think so at all. You are enough for yourself. Take a break from social media, Know your worth, value your time and abilities. Hug and talk to yourself like a friend. The important thing to remember is that you are just as important as the people around you, and you should treat yourself as well as you treat other people in your life. Without taking the time for self-care, we become more irritable, stressed, and less available for the people we love.

Love yourself, take care of yourself, be friend of yourself, be kind to yourself and Prioritize yourself today.
Thanks!💙

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My Review of 2022!

Two days ago i was thinking about a short part of my life 2022 then i realised that so many things have changed in this phase. I learnd, i changed, i created, i lost, i won many things in this 2022. I saw many difficult phases of my life this year. I have seen many crusts and troughs in my life.

I Learned that everything is possible in life, we just need to be patience, be courageous and be strong. There are many things which hurt us, damage us and there are many situations which expose people’s lies and truth. I tend to ignore their negative mentality. I learn how to be happy and spread happiness, love and positivity. I learn how to raise my hopes and how to keep my dreams alive. I learn that how to give motivation and life to broken people.

Live every moment of your life.

I lost my father(BabaJan) in August 2022 from whom I Learned that how to be patient in my bad days. I Learn how to thankful to our ALLAH for giving us hope, strength and patience in our bad days. And how to thankful to our ALLAH for giving us success and all the blessings. I lost some people like diamonds. I learn how to live without them. I learn how to be patience after losing our beloved’s. I have achieved many goals, many milestones this year.

Don’t be sad.

I learn that how to upgrade my decisions, my thoughts and ideas about things and people. I learn to upgrade my thoughts about my destinations. I saw real and fake faces of people. I learn to remove two faced people from my life. I learn to remove fake friends from my life and keep good people around me. I upgrade many so many things in this 2022.

I learn at the end of a day that you are the only one who can listen to you, who can communicate with you, who can tell you the story of your whole day. I learn that only we can heal us, only we can help us. This year has given me many beautiful and wonderful memories as well as moments of sorrows and grief.

Accept the challenge.

Always be happy, accept your circumstances, accept yourself as you are, stop worrying, stop being rude. Be kind to yourself and others. Have faith in ALLAH and in yourself.
Thank you💙

Be patient.

Forget me not!!

She was waiting since 7’o clock and now it was 7;45 am but he didn’t come yet. So she got upset. “Why is he late? Why hasn’t he come yet?” She was thinking when he appeared from behind the wall. She was constantly looking into his blue and bright eyes. He gave her a beautiful smile when he saw her. She smiled back. After a few seconds, they began to walk quietly down the long street.
They were good friends from childhood and also good neighbors. Maira loved him and he knew that very well but he was silent because of their status difference. Maira was the daughter of a rich businessman while Adam was from an ordinary family.
“Why don’t you come in your car, Maira?” Adam asked her.
“Because I can come by my feet.”  Maira smiled sweetly.
“I’m serious Maira.”
“Am I kidding?” Maira replied fast. Adam became silent and started looking at her.
“Why are you staring at me? I like to come with you like this. It’s simple.” She answered and shrugged.
“And I’ve told you many times don’t do these all things. I don’t wanna give you hope and hurt you later. So please stop these nonsenses and focus on your study.” He explained politely.
“You already hurting me Adam.” Her eyes were full of tears. He kept looking into her dark black eyes.
She was sitting on a bench near a blue lake. It was Adam’s favorite place. He used to spend his free time here and she loved everything about Adam. He was coming towards her. He knew that she would be here. She was lost in her thoughts. He has his hands tied behind his back. Be came silently and sat down next to her. Taking a look at him, she started looking at the front again.
“Are you angry with me?” He asked softly. Today they were meeting two weeks later.
“Who can I be angry with you?” She said without looking at him. After a moment of silence, he took his hands out of behind and held them in front of her. There was a smile, a cute and beautiful bouquet in his hands. She looked at the bouquet and then looked into his blue eyes. “Forget-Me-Not” she repeated the words on the bouquet. It was a beautiful bouquet of “forget me not” blue blooms flowers. From which, Adam’s immense love was bursting and that was a sign of Adam’s love.  They both looked at each other for a long time. After a while, they both started laughing and walking along the lakeshore.💙

Love is the water of life. -RUMI

Words!!

The words are those which encourage us to live or which we break apart. Words are those Which we can run an arrow on someone or put an ointment on someone’s wound. Words are what we can make someone against us or create love for ourselves in someone’s heart.
Talking by words is an art that only human beings have. There is a famous article: “There is no bone in the tongue, but it can easily break someone’s bone.”

Without words we can neither think nor write anything. And can not express. Respect for words does not matter to everyone. The words are the clothes of human conscience. The words show the beauty of the human being.

“Impossible is a WORD to be found only in the dictionary of fools.”
— Napoleon Bonaparte

Words are not just lifeless. There is a whole soul and life inside them.
Man describes the ideas in his speech and writing through words.  Every man has a good or bad words, but his proper use reaches him to the level of wisdom.

“No matter what people tell you, WORDS  and IDEAS  can change the world.”
— Robin Williams

The most selfish word in human conversation is’I’. The excessive use of the word shows a person’s narcissism and selfishness. When the use of ‘I’ in the conversation increases and the conversation revolves around ‘I’, know that you are hurting yourself and others with your own selfishness.

“I know the value of words. They can make you, break you. They can heal your soul. They can damage you forever.”
— Muneeba Mazari

The most satisfying and comforting word used in a conversation is’we’. When a person adds his/her colleagues, friends, loved ones or employees to his/her plan by saying ‘we’, he/she adds to the most important asset of his/her life i.e., getting help in times of sympathy and distress.

“Never regret a day in your life, good days give happiness,  bad days give experience, worst days give lessons and best days give memories.”
Stay Blessed.
Thanks!🧚‍♀️

Feelings!!

It’s a question we’ve all asked ourselves at one time or another that what are the feelings??
There’s a whole range of feelings that extend beyond the basics. But all feelings have one thing in common: they come as a result of a reaction to emotions.
Feelings are those in which the likes and dislikes of others are taken care of. Feelings are those in which the words of others should be kept in mind.


In psychology, the word is usually reserved for the conscious subjective experience of emotions.
Feelings are the combination of knowledge and judgment. Fear, anger, happiness, sadness.
Consciously describe what you decide. You accept some time of sadness. You decide to love, forgive, hate. It’s all the feelings.


An important stage or aspect of our mental actions is determined by our feelings. We think, feel. We are not only intelligent but also have feelings.
The first thing is that feelings play the role of great power in life. Feelings do the same thing that petrol does for a car or for a steam rail engine. No one can imagine living without emotions. Undoubtedly there are people who condemn emotions. But the fact is that it is not useful to expel emotions from your life.


Emotions and feelings are often used synonymously, but they’re not the same thing.
The science of psychology recognizes feelings as the response to emotions, but the number of emotions is limited.
There are many types of feelings.
1) Fear → feeling of being afraid , frightened, scared.
2) Anger → feeling angry. A stronger word for anger is rage.
3) Sadness → feeling sad. Other words are sorrow, grief.
4) Joy → feeling happy. Other words are happiness, gladness.
5) Disgust → feeling something is wrong or nasty. Strong disapproval.
6) Surprise → being unprepared for something.
7) Trust → a positive emotion; admiration is stronger; acceptance is weaker.
8) Anticipation → in the sense of looking forward positively to something which is going to happen. Expectation is more neutral.


The power of feelings and emotions plays important role in human life. However it is extremely important to keep feelings and emotions within the limits of moderation. We should not even suppress our emotions completely or give them an open holiday.
It is clear to all that some of our emotions and feelings are more important than some other emotions and feelings. It is better for us to live in love instead of hatred, instead of fear, instead of disappear, instead of anger and instead of narrowness.
Stay blessed!!🧚‍♀️