Prioritize yourself!

Every pain teaches us a lesson that we remember for the rest of our lives. But don’t hurt yourself by running after others. Prioritize yourself. We can never force anyone to be our fan or friend. Everyone has their own thoughts, their own preferences. Let people go, let them see the world. If they don’t see the value of having you don’t try to convince them. Forget expectations, groom yourself but not for others. Take care of yourself without being selfish.

When you feel inferior, depressed, hopeless and unloved. Write down all the things on a page that make you good, bad, happy or sad then understand it and let it leave. Make yourself a cup of tea and enjoy your company. Trust me, you won’t find a better company than yourself. In order to fill other people’s cups, we must make sure our cups are filled. Even though it can feel like there is not enough time for self-care, there is. Sometimes, we just have to learn how to fit it in and prioritize it.

Forgive yourself, protect yourself, listen to yourself and understand yourself. Feed your mind with inspiring books and with positive motivation. Decide and make boundaries for yourself and don’t allow anyone to violate them. When you put yourself first you feel happier and more content. Your health is highly crucial and should be first on your list of priorities. It determines your prosperity, comfort and overall attitude. Be kind to yourself and don’t let anyone to ruin your mood. Discover your true self and Be proud of who you are.

There are many of us who feel that no one listens to us, no one sees our happiness or no one values us. Don’t think so at all. You are enough for yourself. Take a break from social media, Know your worth, value your time and abilities. Hug and talk to yourself like a friend. The important thing to remember is that you are just as important as the people around you, and you should treat yourself as well as you treat other people in your life. Without taking the time for self-care, we become more irritable, stressed, and less available for the people we love.

Love yourself, take care of yourself, be friend of yourself, be kind to yourself and Prioritize yourself today.
Thanks!💙

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My Review of 2022!

Two days ago i was thinking about a short part of my life 2022 then i realised that so many things have changed in this phase. I learnd, i changed, i created, i lost, i won many things in this 2022. I saw many difficult phases of my life this year. I have seen many crusts and troughs in my life.

I Learned that everything is possible in life, we just need to be patience, be courageous and be strong. There are many things which hurt us, damage us and there are many situations which expose people’s lies and truth. I tend to ignore their negative mentality. I learn how to be happy and spread happiness, love and positivity. I learn how to raise my hopes and how to keep my dreams alive. I learn that how to give motivation and life to broken people.

Live every moment of your life.

I lost my father(BabaJan) in August 2022 from whom I Learned that how to be patient in my bad days. I Learn how to thankful to our ALLAH for giving us hope, strength and patience in our bad days. And how to thankful to our ALLAH for giving us success and all the blessings. I lost some people like diamonds. I learn how to live without them. I learn how to be patience after losing our beloved’s. I have achieved many goals, many milestones this year.

Don’t be sad.

I learn that how to upgrade my decisions, my thoughts and ideas about things and people. I learn to upgrade my thoughts about my destinations. I saw real and fake faces of people. I learn to remove two faced people from my life. I learn to remove fake friends from my life and keep good people around me. I upgrade many so many things in this 2022.

I learn at the end of a day that you are the only one who can listen to you, who can communicate with you, who can tell you the story of your whole day. I learn that only we can heal us, only we can help us. This year has given me many beautiful and wonderful memories as well as moments of sorrows and grief.

Accept the challenge.

Always be happy, accept your circumstances, accept yourself as you are, stop worrying, stop being rude. Be kind to yourself and others. Have faith in ALLAH and in yourself.
Thank you💙

Be patient.

An another chance!

Every person makes mistakes. Every person fails in his mission at some point. Every person makes wrong decisions. Life is fast, there is no doubt about that. Life takes us away from our favorite things somewhere. In the blink of an eye, our lives come to a standstill.

“Let tomorrow be your second chance to prove that you are better than today and yesterday.”
-RituGhatourey

We lost a lot of things but life is still beautiful because life gives us another chance and sometimes even a third and fourth chance, whether we deserve it or not. Whatever has happened in our past. No matter how many times we have failed. Life always gives us another chance, and we don’t get the opportunity to repeat things that have become a bitter past for us. Rather, we get this opportunity to achieve our goals in another way. We get this opportunity to improve ourselves.  We get this opportunity to free ourselves from the past. We get this opportunity to make ourselves successful. This opportunity tells us that the best and wonderful things await us.

“A second chance doesn’t mean you’re in the clear. In many ways, it is the more difficult thing. Because a second chance means that you have to try harder. You must rise to the challenge without the blind optimism of ignorance.”
-LingMa

There are many people who fail once then they give up, they stop trying. People who don’t try can never succeed. They can never move forward. They can not face the world. They can not fulfill their dreams, because nothing is possible without effort.
Breathing means we are alive and alive means we have endless opportunities. Life always gives you and another chance, so take advantage of it and make yourself successful. Lucky people get another chance. Stay strong!

Love yourself!

Self-love is above everything.  Self-love is not about selfishness; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

Did you ever lie on the bed with depression, thinking “I am full of flaws”, “I hate myself”, or even “I am worthless”?
Self-love is never an easy job. When we did something below expectation, we may sometimes fall into the anxiousness of not being good enough, judging ourselves harshly instead of appreciating ourselves for what we did.

Give importance to yourself, give time to yourself, fall in love with yourself. After that, you will be able to love someone, to give time and importance to someone.
If you want to change yourself and searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror.
Only you can deserve your love and affection.

Love yourself.💙

If You are black, if you are poor, if you are not beautiful, if you are weak in studies; But you are free, you are powerful, you are good, you are great, you have value, you can do anything because you are born to be real not to be perfect. Just trust in yourself and love yourself.

“Live your life fully, accept yourself the way you are. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to yourself. I’ll repeat be kind to yourself. And only then you can be kind to others. Love yourself and spread that love.” -MuneebaMazari

No one is you and that is your power. If you don’t love yourself, nobody will. If you don’t give respect to yourself, nobody will.
Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you. Take care of yourself first.
Thanks!💙

You are unique!!

Think what a remarkable, unduplicatable, and miraculous thing it is to be you! Of all the people who have come and gone on the earth, since the beginning of time, not ONE of them is like YOU!
No one who has ever lived or is to come has had your combination of abilities, talents, appearance, friends, acquaintances, burdens, sorrows, and opportunities.

No, one’s hair grows exactly the way yours does. No one’s finger prints are like yours. No one has the same combination of secret inside jokes and family expressions that you know.
The few people who laugh at all the same things you do, don’t sneeze the way you do. No one prays about exactly the same concerns as you do. No one is loved by the same combination of people that love you – NO ONE!
No one before, no one to come. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY UNIQUE!

Enjoy that uniqueness. You do not have to pretend in order to seem more like someone else. You weren’t meant to be like someone else. You do not have to lie to conceal the parts of you that are not like what you see in anyone else.
You were meant to be different. Nowhere ever in all of history will the same things be going on in anyone’s mind, soul and spirit as are going on in yours right now.
If you did not exist, there would be a hole in creation, a gap in history, something missing from the plan for humankind.

Treasure your uniqueness. It is a gift given only to you. Enjoy it and share it!
No one can reach out to others in the same way that you can. No one can speak your words. No one can convey your meanings. No one can comfort with your kind of comfort. No one can bring your kind of understanding to another person.

“I do believe I’m special. My special gift is my vision, my committment and my willingness to do what ever it takes.”
Tony Robbins

No one can be cheerful and lighthearted and joyous in your way. No one can smile your smile. No one else can bring the whole unique impact of you to another human being.
Share your uniqueness. Let it be free to flow out among your family and friends and people you meet in the rush and clutter of living wherever you are. That gift of yourself was given you to enjoy and share. Give yourself away!

See it! Receive it! Let it tickle you! Let it inform you and judge you and inspire you! YOU ARE UNIQUE!
Stay Happy!
Thanks!🧚‍♀️

خود پہ یقین رکھیں!!

بارش کا ننھا قطرہ بادل سے ٹپکا۔ جب اس نے سمندر کی چوڑائی دیکھی تو شرمندہ ہوا اور دل میں کہا کہ سمندر کے سامنے میری کیا حیثیت ہے۔ اس کے ہوتے ہوئے تو میں نہ ہونے کے برابر ہوں۔ جب اس نے اپنے آپ کو حقارت سے دیکھا تو ایک سیپی نے اس کو اپنے منہ میں لے لیا اور دل و جان سے اس کی پرورش کی۔ تھوڑے ہی دنوں میں یہ قطرہ ایک قیمتی موتی بن گیا اور بادشاہ کی تاج کی زینت بنا۔

انسان جب کچھ کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہے اور کامیاب نہیں ہوتا۔ بہت ساری محنت کے باوجود بھی وہ کامیاب نہیں ہو پاتا۔ تو وہ سوچنے لگتا ہے کہ اس کے حصے میں ناکامی کے سوا کچھ بھی نہیں۔ ایسا بالکل بھی نہیں ہوتا بلکہ وہ اپنے یقین کی طاقت کو کمزور کر دیتا ہے۔ ایمان ڈگمگا جاتا ہے۔ جبکہ وہ بھول جاتے ہیں کہ جتنی بڑی کوشش ہوتی ہے اتنی بڑی آزمائش اور قربانیاں ہوتی ہیں۔

اللہ تعالی اپنے بندے کی جنون اور جذبے کو دیکھ کر اس کی آزمائش صرف اسلئے بڑھا دیتا ہے کیونکہ وہ صرف اسکا صبر، اسکا ضبط اور اسکا یقین آزمانا چاہتا ہے۔ تو ہمیشہ خود پہ یقین رکھیں۔ کوئی بھی نیک کام ہو چاہے وہ بہت چھوٹا سا ہو۔ کبھی بھی شرمندگی محسوس مت کریں۔ بار بار آگے بڑھنے کی کوشش کریں۔ اپنے اللہ پر بھروسہ رکھیں۔ بےشک اللہ تعالی بہترین مددگار ہے۔ جزاک اللہ!🌼

Keep your Promises!

A promise is a commitment by someone to do or not to do something.

If you make a promise. So please do it all and it is haraam to break them and act in a treacherous manner. And when promises are not fulfilled, then man is proved to be a liar. Which leads  to misunderstanding.  And that it what increases the distance between people and love and respect are goes away.
As children, we grow up learning about keeping promises from our parents, teachers and the children’s books with their moral stories that mold our instincts to believe breaking a promise is morally wrong.

The Quran has praised those who keep their promises.
Fulfilling promises is one of the attributes of the pious according to the Book of ALLAH, and it one of the greatest means of attaining taqwa (piety, consciousness of ALLAH).

Failing to keep the promise falls into the category of lies and falsehood is a sign of hypocrisy. The Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) has mentioned several hadiths regarding the promise vacancy.
It was narrated that Abdullah ibn Amr()said: The Messenger of Allah Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) said: “There are four characteristics, whoever has them all is a pure hypocrite: when he speaks he lies, when he makes a promise he breaks it, when he makes a covenant he betrays it, and when he disputes he resorts to obscene speech. Whoever has one of them has one of the characteristics of hypocrisy, until he gives it up.”
(Al-Bukhari: 3178, Muslim: 58)

Learn to obey promises and make promises to someone when you are confident that you can fulfil your promise.

Please be sincere in your promises. I’m not just talking about the promises of love. Be sincere with your friends and relatives. And also in business matters. Likewise, improve your world and your life in the Hereafter.

Our Lord, give us in this world(that which is) good and in the Hereafter(that which is) good and protect us from the punishment of the fire. Ameen
Jazak ALLAH.🧚‍♀️

Keep your dreams alive!

A dream is a succession of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations.

Generally, people consider everything impossible. They discourage others and make fun of those who try to achieve something. Leave them, please. Go ahead with a smiling face and take on every responsibility. At least you will succeed to complete your dreams.

“Sing your songs, and dream your dreams, hope your hope and pray your prayer.”

If you think that she can do this and I can’t. Because she has studied in high school, college, and university. This thinking is wrong. ALLAH has given wisdom to every Human being. And have given thoughts. Then why you don’t think positively?? Think positive for yourself, for your dreams.

Nothing is hard.
You can win.
Win be the lord.
Be with brave men.

Make dream real.
Be tough and strong.
Go through ordeal.
Yes, come along.
(Gul Bakhti)

Keep your dreams alive and work hard because dreams can’t be fulfilled without hard work.
So please, do not let anyone steal your dreams, or try to tell you they are too impossible.
Stay blessed. Thanks!🧚‍♀️

Secret Of Success!

What is success??
Success provides confidence, security, a sense of well-being, the ability to contribute at a greater level, hope, and leadership.
The most important reason someone becomes a success is by hard work. Success only comes by preserving despite failure.

Ray Goforth says: “There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world. Those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed.”

Don’t pay attention to what others say. There will be many people who will not see you successful.

My teacher told me: “Work hard so quietly that your success will make noises.”

Therefore ignore people’s negative thoughts and work hard quietly. And in my opinion to be a successful person you have to ignore people’s negative thoughts.

If you fail once, twice, trice, or many times. So don’t think that you can’t succeed. Try again over again. Be sure success is two steps ahead.

Open the wings
Don’t feel shy
Only the wings
He who can fly
If you want to be
Cross barricade
Success is glee
You’re comrade.
(Gul Bakhti)

So from today work hard, always be positive, and make yourself a successful person.
Stay Happy.
Thanks!🧚‍♀️