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Just a message!

Assalam o alaikum i hope you all are doing well, and i am cute.. hehe! Okay g to me kia kehne wali thi.. yes! Hamari aajkal ki new generation dusro se expectations rakhte he balkeh kuch ziada hi expectations rakhte he or phir last me ye kehte he k “nothing hurt but expectations”.

To mere aaj k blog ka maqsad hi yahi he k aap is baat ko blkl zehen se nikal de k koi ayega aapki sunega, aapko mashwara dega, aapki life k sad phase me aapka sath dega, aapki har bedhangi baat sunega etc etc. Is baat ko aap accept kar le k aajkal kisi k paas itna time hota hi nai k wo aapki baat sunain qu k aajkal har kisi k apne apne itne sare masle hote hai k wo mazeed dusro kay sad dukrhay nai sun sakta.. or agar koi aap se kafi days baad baat kare to is baat pe andha yaqeen kar le k bechara free ho chuka he apne kamon se or ab bore hone laga he to is maqam pe unhen aik baat sujhi k qu na is bechare insan ki baat sun k, os pe taras kha k, awein han me han mila k timepass kar le.. you ghareeb

Me aik baat poochti hu kia aap apne ache dost hai? Kia aap ne apni baat kabhi dihan se suni he? Kabhi khud ko importance di he? Kabhi apne maslon pe ghor kia he? Kabhi khud se expectations rakhe hai? Mujhe pakka yaqeen hai 99.9% logon ne blkl bhi aesa nai kia hoga.. because aapko dusro k bare me sochne se, un se expectations rakhne se, khud ko unkay k liye improve karne se fursat milegi to aap khud pe focus kar sakenge na… ugghhhh

Dekhe meri behno or mere bhaiyon zindagi aik hi insan pe rukh jane ka name nai hai, agar kisi k paas aapkay liye time nai he, koi aapko importance nai de raha to khud ko unkay peechay qu khwaar kar rahe ho? Qu un logon kay peechay baag rahe? ho jo kabhi bhi aapkay nai ho sakte.. ab please yahan love etc k bare na sochiyega, my ALLAH..

Aap na khud ko ye jhooti tasalli dena band kare k wo aapkay ache dost hai ye aap k ache dost he(mujhe pata he dost he to dunya hai).. lkn dosti ye nai he k aap os insan k peechay bagay, aap un se khud k liye waqt mangay ye to phir dosti hi nai howi.. like me koi aapko negative batain sochne ka nai keh rahi.. ya aapkay mind me negativity daal rahi hu… i am just saying that improve yourself, improve your thinking, respect yourself and your time. Spend time with yourself.

Or kindly is chakkar se nikal jaye k koi aye or aapki baat sunain, aapko importance, aapki har achi or buri baat bardasht kare, aapkay liye apne kaam chorh de.. aesa nai hota, har kisi ki apni apni masrofiyat hoti he, they have different issues.. to khair he agar koi aapko msg na kare ya aapki baat na sunain, ya aap sad ho or osi waqt wo insan aapko chorh de.. khair he koi gal nai, yahi to wo maqam hota he jab insan strong hojata hai, yahi to wo lamhay hote he jab insan ko apni importance ka pata lagta he, yahi to wo waqt hota he jab insan mature hojata hai.

Me aap se ye blkl nai keh rahi he aap os insan ko block kar de ya ignore karna start kare.. nah blkl nah. Lkn kam az kam os insan k pechay bhagna band kare.. aapka apna standard he khud ko pehchanay.. acha acha or positive positive sochain.. khush rahe, spread love and positivity. Take care of yourself.. tata!

Self love is above everything💙
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Prioritize yourself!

Every pain teaches us a lesson that we remember for the rest of our lives. But don’t hurt yourself by running after others. Prioritize yourself. We can never force anyone to be our fan or friend. Everyone has their own thoughts, their own preferences. Let people go, let them see the world. If they don’t see the value of having you don’t try to convince them. Forget expectations, groom yourself but not for others. Take care of yourself without being selfish.

When you feel inferior, depressed, hopeless and unloved. Write down all the things on a page that make you good, bad, happy or sad then understand it and let it leave. Make yourself a cup of tea and enjoy your company. Trust me, you won’t find a better company than yourself. In order to fill other people’s cups, we must make sure our cups are filled. Even though it can feel like there is not enough time for self-care, there is. Sometimes, we just have to learn how to fit it in and prioritize it.

Forgive yourself, protect yourself, listen to yourself and understand yourself. Feed your mind with inspiring books and with positive motivation. Decide and make boundaries for yourself and don’t allow anyone to violate them. When you put yourself first you feel happier and more content. Your health is highly crucial and should be first on your list of priorities. It determines your prosperity, comfort and overall attitude. Be kind to yourself and don’t let anyone to ruin your mood. Discover your true self and Be proud of who you are.

There are many of us who feel that no one listens to us, no one sees our happiness or no one values us. Don’t think so at all. You are enough for yourself. Take a break from social media, Know your worth, value your time and abilities. Hug and talk to yourself like a friend. The important thing to remember is that you are just as important as the people around you, and you should treat yourself as well as you treat other people in your life. Without taking the time for self-care, we become more irritable, stressed, and less available for the people we love.

Love yourself, take care of yourself, be friend of yourself, be kind to yourself and Prioritize yourself today.