Prioritize yourself!

Every pain teaches us a lesson that we remember for the rest of our lives. But don’t hurt yourself by running after others. Prioritize yourself. We can never force anyone to be our fan or friend. Everyone has their own thoughts, their own preferences. Let people go, let them see the world. If they don’t see the value of having you don’t try to convince them. Forget expectations, groom yourself but not for others. Take care of yourself without being selfish.

When you feel inferior, depressed, hopeless and unloved. Write down all the things on a page that make you good, bad, happy or sad then understand it and let it leave. Make yourself a cup of tea and enjoy your company. Trust me, you won’t find a better company than yourself. In order to fill other people’s cups, we must make sure our cups are filled. Even though it can feel like there is not enough time for self-care, there is. Sometimes, we just have to learn how to fit it in and prioritize it.

Forgive yourself, protect yourself, listen to yourself and understand yourself. Feed your mind with inspiring books and with positive motivation. Decide and make boundaries for yourself and don’t allow anyone to violate them. When you put yourself first you feel happier and more content. Your health is highly crucial and should be first on your list of priorities. It determines your prosperity, comfort and overall attitude. Be kind to yourself and don’t let anyone to ruin your mood. Discover your true self and Be proud of who you are.

There are many of us who feel that no one listens to us, no one sees our happiness or no one values us. Don’t think so at all. You are enough for yourself. Take a break from social media, Know your worth, value your time and abilities. Hug and talk to yourself like a friend. The important thing to remember is that you are just as important as the people around you, and you should treat yourself as well as you treat other people in your life. Without taking the time for self-care, we become more irritable, stressed, and less available for the people we love.

Love yourself, take care of yourself, be friend of yourself, be kind to yourself and Prioritize yourself today.
Thanks!💙

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My Review of 2022!

Two days ago i was thinking about a short part of my life 2022 then i realised that so many things have changed in this phase. I learnd, i changed, i created, i lost, i won many things in this 2022. I saw many difficult phases of my life this year. I have seen many crusts and troughs in my life.

I Learned that everything is possible in life, we just need to be patience, be courageous and be strong. There are many things which hurt us, damage us and there are many situations which expose people’s lies and truth. I tend to ignore their negative mentality. I learn how to be happy and spread happiness, love and positivity. I learn how to raise my hopes and how to keep my dreams alive. I learn that how to give motivation and life to broken people.

Live every moment of your life.

I lost my father(BabaJan) in August 2022 from whom I Learned that how to be patient in my bad days. I Learn how to thankful to our ALLAH for giving us hope, strength and patience in our bad days. And how to thankful to our ALLAH for giving us success and all the blessings. I lost some people like diamonds. I learn how to live without them. I learn how to be patience after losing our beloved’s. I have achieved many goals, many milestones this year.

Don’t be sad.

I learn that how to upgrade my decisions, my thoughts and ideas about things and people. I learn to upgrade my thoughts about my destinations. I saw real and fake faces of people. I learn to remove two faced people from my life. I learn to remove fake friends from my life and keep good people around me. I upgrade many so many things in this 2022.

I learn at the end of a day that you are the only one who can listen to you, who can communicate with you, who can tell you the story of your whole day. I learn that only we can heal us, only we can help us. This year has given me many beautiful and wonderful memories as well as moments of sorrows and grief.

Accept the challenge.

Always be happy, accept your circumstances, accept yourself as you are, stop worrying, stop being rude. Be kind to yourself and others. Have faith in ALLAH and in yourself.
Thank you💙

Be patient.

I am a girl!

I am a girl like a butterfly
With beautiful wings
Colourful, shiny and fragile

I am a girl like a lioness
With a stout heart
Fearless, strong and powerful

I am a girl like a star
With a brighter shine
Glow, flicker and shimmer

I am a girl like a flower
With pretty colours
Blooming, shimmering and charming

I am a girl like a Queen
With my own kingdom
Respectable, graceful and courageous


I am a girl
a marvellous creature
And i know my worth.
 

In every woman there is a Queen.💙

Forget me not!!

She was waiting since 7’o clock and now it was 7;45 am but he didn’t come yet. So she got upset. “Why is he late? Why hasn’t he come yet?” She was thinking when he appeared from behind the wall. She was constantly looking into his blue and bright eyes. He gave her a beautiful smile when he saw her. She smiled back. After a few seconds, they began to walk quietly down the long street.
They were good friends from childhood and also good neighbors. Maira loved him and he knew that very well but he was silent because of their status difference. Maira was the daughter of a rich businessman while Adam was from an ordinary family.
“Why don’t you come in your car, Maira?” Adam asked her.
“Because I can come by my feet.”  Maira smiled sweetly.
“I’m serious Maira.”
“Am I kidding?” Maira replied fast. Adam became silent and started looking at her.
“Why are you staring at me? I like to come with you like this. It’s simple.” She answered and shrugged.
“And I’ve told you many times don’t do these all things. I don’t wanna give you hope and hurt you later. So please stop these nonsenses and focus on your study.” He explained politely.
“You already hurting me Adam.” Her eyes were full of tears. He kept looking into her dark black eyes.
She was sitting on a bench near a blue lake. It was Adam’s favorite place. He used to spend his free time here and she loved everything about Adam. He was coming towards her. He knew that she would be here. She was lost in her thoughts. He has his hands tied behind his back. Be came silently and sat down next to her. Taking a look at him, she started looking at the front again.
“Are you angry with me?” He asked softly. Today they were meeting two weeks later.
“Who can I be angry with you?” She said without looking at him. After a moment of silence, he took his hands out of behind and held them in front of her. There was a smile, a cute and beautiful bouquet in his hands. She looked at the bouquet and then looked into his blue eyes. “Forget-Me-Not” she repeated the words on the bouquet. It was a beautiful bouquet of “forget me not” blue blooms flowers. From which, Adam’s immense love was bursting and that was a sign of Adam’s love.  They both looked at each other for a long time. After a while, they both started laughing and walking along the lakeshore.💙

Love is the water of life. -RUMI

An another chance!

Every person makes mistakes. Every person fails in his mission at some point. Every person makes wrong decisions. Life is fast, there is no doubt about that. Life takes us away from our favorite things somewhere. In the blink of an eye, our lives come to a standstill.

“Let tomorrow be your second chance to prove that you are better than today and yesterday.”
-RituGhatourey

We lost a lot of things but life is still beautiful because life gives us another chance and sometimes even a third and fourth chance, whether we deserve it or not. Whatever has happened in our past. No matter how many times we have failed. Life always gives us another chance, and we don’t get the opportunity to repeat things that have become a bitter past for us. Rather, we get this opportunity to achieve our goals in another way. We get this opportunity to improve ourselves.  We get this opportunity to free ourselves from the past. We get this opportunity to make ourselves successful. This opportunity tells us that the best and wonderful things await us.

“A second chance doesn’t mean you’re in the clear. In many ways, it is the more difficult thing. Because a second chance means that you have to try harder. You must rise to the challenge without the blind optimism of ignorance.”
-LingMa

There are many people who fail once then they give up, they stop trying. People who don’t try can never succeed. They can never move forward. They can not face the world. They can not fulfill their dreams, because nothing is possible without effort.
Breathing means we are alive and alive means we have endless opportunities. Life always gives you and another chance, so take advantage of it and make yourself successful. Lucky people get another chance. Stay strong!

میرے خواب!!!

مجھے اچھا لگتا ہے

اوپر بادلوں پہ کھڑے ہو کر نیچے برستے بارش کو دیکھنا

قوس قزح پر سکیٹنگ کرنا

تاروں کو گننا

ہوا میں گھڑ سواری کرنا

سمندر کے تہہ میں بیٹھ کر سکیچنگ کرنا

چاند کے کنارے پر بیٹھ کر چائے پینا

سورج کے شعاعوں کو پکڑ کر جھولنا

یہ سب ممکن نہیں لیکن پھر بھی

مجھے یہ سب کرنا اچھا لگتا ہے

کیونکہ۔۔۔!!
مجھے خواب دیکھنا اچھا لگتا ہے۔

Kindness!

Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous and treating people with respect and love.
Heart is like a shell and kindness is a pearl of the heart; without it the heart is just and empty shell.

Our beautiful religion Islam teaches us to be merciful and show kindness not only towards human beings but also towards animals, birds, jinn, and our environment.
Love, kindness, care, and affection are some characters which were constantly flowing in the ocean of our Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) existence. Therefore every Muslim is preached to be kind, humble, and gentle to fellow human beings as well as animals and other living creatures.

Helping each other is a way to overcome grief that we may experience, and it can empower us in our worship to ALLAH. One of the greatest human beings to walk the earth and who was also the best example of compassion and kindness in human form was the Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ).

ALLAH also urges the Prophet of Islam Hazrat Muhammad(ﷺ) to stress kindness among believers in their daily actions “Keep to forgiveness (Mohammad ﷺ), and enjoin kindness, and turn away from the ignorant.”

Kindness must always be shown when dealing with parents and the near kins. “It is prescribed for you, when one of you approaches death, if he leaves wealth, that he bequeath unto parents and near relatives in kindness. (This is) a duty for all those who ward off (evil).”

Islam enjoins kindness towards all individuals, but more so towards certain categories, such as parents and orphans. This quality is particularly stressed in the Quran.
In the Quran, ALLAH (swt) says: “Help one another in acts of piety and righteousness. And do not assist each other in acts of sinfulness and transgression. And be aware of ALLAH. Verily, ALLAH is severe in punishment” (Quran 5:2).

Acts of kindness can be as small as droplets of water, or as massive as the rocks on the mountain. A famous quotes states;
“Simple acts of kindness are the seeds we plant to change the world.”

Every one of us will at some point in our lives experience some type of hardship or pain that hurts us. It is therefore, important to explore the importance of helping others from an Islamic context.
Be kind! Stay happy! Jazak ALLAH!💙

Love yourself!

Self-love is above everything.  Self-love is not about selfishness; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

Did you ever lie on the bed with depression, thinking “I am full of flaws”, “I hate myself”, or even “I am worthless”?
Self-love is never an easy job. When we did something below expectation, we may sometimes fall into the anxiousness of not being good enough, judging ourselves harshly instead of appreciating ourselves for what we did.

Give importance to yourself, give time to yourself, fall in love with yourself. After that, you will be able to love someone, to give time and importance to someone.
If you want to change yourself and searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror.
Only you can deserve your love and affection.

Love yourself.💙

If You are black, if you are poor, if you are not beautiful, if you are weak in studies; But you are free, you are powerful, you are good, you are great, you have value, you can do anything because you are born to be real not to be perfect. Just trust in yourself and love yourself.

“Live your life fully, accept yourself the way you are. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to yourself. I’ll repeat be kind to yourself. And only then you can be kind to others. Love yourself and spread that love.” -MuneebaMazari

No one is you and that is your power. If you don’t love yourself, nobody will. If you don’t give respect to yourself, nobody will.
Be proud of who you are, and not ashamed of how someone else sees you. Take care of yourself first.
Thanks!💙

A Mother!!

As a shiny moon
In a dark night,
So is the beauty
On her holy face.

As a winter sun
In a hot summer,
So innocence
Of her smile.

As a galaxy star
On a vasty sky,
So is a woman
With her travail done.

She is a mother
A great woman,
Our pride
Our everything.

Love your mother.💙

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ALLAH Is Always With Me!

O ALLAH!
When I am alone
When no one is with me
When the darkness is shattered
When I start to get scared
From the wildness of people
When I am disappointed
So I feel
That you are with me
More close to my aorta
To find you so close to myself
My loneliness ends
My fearness ends
My horror ends
My hope is born again
Now I have everything
Now I feel satisfied
Because you are always with me.💙